As Christian coaches there is much that we must consider when we begin working with our clients. Coaching is not a job that should be taken lightly. We must always keep some things in mind, including the three C’s of Christian Coaching. Say that three times fast!
The Character of Christ Jesus, Competencies and Being Coachable
First, let’s consider our character. Especially as a Christian coach we must remember that our character should be top notch. We after all should be representing Jesus Christ above anything or anyone. We therefore, in many cases, are being Jesus himself to others. How would you describe the character of Jesus and how do you role model these traits to your clients? Remember this as you coach. In Laurie Beth Jones book, Jesus as Life Coach, she writes about the empathic listening of Jesus and the art of asking powerful questions, which are two key skills in coaching. From carpenter to Savior, Jesus first transformed himself, then the world.
Next, let’s consider our coaching competencies (also known as Coaching Masteries) and the importance to study, learn and grow in the these skill areas. There are nine IAC Coaching Masteries. Watch for future posts as we explore these 9 masteries in greater detail. These include:
- Establishing and maintaining a relationship of trust.
- Perceiving, affirming and expanding the clients potential.
- Engaged listening.
- Promoting the present.
- Expressing.
- Clarifying.
- Helping the client set and keep clear intentions.
- Inviting possibility.
- Helping the client create and use support systems and structures.
The third C is coachable. Yes, a coach too needs to be coachable. A coach is always growing. This includes our own walk of faith, growing deeper in our faith, and remaining coachable. What does it mean to be coachable? Coaches are continuous learners about themselves, and their experiences and they work to enhance their skills unceasingly.
